There are those who watch from a distance, measure every gesture, and turn others’ lives into a courtroom. They do not seek to understand, only to condemn. To them, the truth becomes a risk. To expose yourself is to give them ammunition. Those who erode, criticize, or reduce your choices to caricatures do not deserve transparency. Their conditioned gaze twists any fact. The lie here is not cowardice. It is a necessary filter.
Giving What Is Due
This is not about deceiving out of malice, but about protecting what you build. When someone insists on seeing only fragments, handing them an edited version is fair. Do not waste energy explaining what they refuse to hear. The choice is yours feed their judgment or lock the door. The best lie is not the most elaborate, but the one that sets you free. Use it without guilt. Then keep moving.