Communication defines every relationship. What we say has an immediate effect on the other person. It’s not just the content that matters, but also the timing, tone, and intention. Many times we speak from our own state of mind without considering how it will be received. We think we are being clear, but that is not always the case. And when clarity is missing, confusion, distance, and discomfort appear.
Each person hears through their own history, experiences, wounds, and memories. What is a harmless phrase for one person can have deep meaning for another. The problem is not just saying something wrong, it’s not being aware of the impact our words can have. Communicating well is not about talking more, it’s about speaking with attention and respect. Every word either builds or destroys, brings people closer or pushes them away.